Comments on: Your Advertising Should Be More Like Dating

By: Aaron Foster - Buzz Media, Inc.

Aaron Foster - Buzz Media, Inc. — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Great article John!

To put this into dating terminology for you, too many people try to get in bed and have sex with their date on the first date. The same is true with sales people and their clients. They try to shove the product or service down their throat to get the immediate sale, yet they forget about the long term relationship that is needed in order to move towards marriage and a LONG life of happiness!

Aaron Foster
Buzz Media, Inc.

By: Dan

Dan — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Nice points John. Reminds me of a Seth Godin post – Shiny and deep – http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2006/06/shiny_and_deep.html

By: deborah schultz

deborah schultz — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Great post – check out this post, I did a few months back on similar meme – after the date comes the relationship work..;)

http://www.deborahschultz.com/deblog/2006/04/its_a_relations.html

By: Pink Apple

Pink Apple — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

John
I couldn’t agree more. So rather than advertise per se, I network a lot and direct people to my website and blog that has a real sense of me as a person so that I can start building a connection -tenuous at first – and from there a relationship starts.

By: Natalie Ferguson

Natalie Ferguson — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Ha ha I was just writing about this the other day, but more about how business act like they are trying to get a date from a potential customer, only to get the date then immediately turn it into a stale, boring relationship.

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http://marketingwritings.info/index.php/archives/158 — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

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By: Drew McLellan

Drew McLellan — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Amen John! I just spoke to a national association today and I used a very similar analogy. We were talking about their fundraising efforts and I likened them to walking up to a stranger in an airport and asking for $300 versus asking a friend for the same amount.

People get so enamored with their own product/service that they forget they need to woo their audiences before going in for the big pitch.

Your post is a great reminder — keep up the smart writing!

By: Marketing and Sales

Marketing and Sales — Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Dating .. Marriage .. Advertising John Jantsch’s blog “Duct Tape Marketing”, once voted “Best Small Marketing Blog”, gives a lot of different insight. Its an interesting read and often makes me consider the way that I approach certain topics. His latest p...